I knew I could do it by myself but it sure is better with a partner.
It isn't often that Patrick does something by himself. He doesn't go on guys trips, he doesn't fish or hunt, he loves being with our little family and out friends. But he LOVES cars and was really looking forward to Cruisin the Coast this year. There was no way I was going to tell him to stay home with us to do Homecoming stuff, when I knew I could manage these crazy boys by myself.
So last Friday he left and headed to the coast. I have realized after these few days it sure is better and easier with Patrick here. But I am so glad that he is having a relaxing time in MS enjoying the beautiful weather and watching cars drive by all day long. We all need a minute to ourselves and sometimes you need a reminder that it's good to take time for yourself and that things will be managed even if you aren't there.
But as we all know, nothing can go as planned,. On the Friday Patrick left, Wyatt woke up pretty sick. He has not been sick in a very long time and it was quite scary because he needed breathing treatments and antibiotics. Even more stressful, the past few months we have had multiple conversations about needing a breathing tube if he got a serious respiratory infection. So the first question he asked was if he would need a breathing tube. Luckily, we were able to manage it at home with the help of amazing neighbors who checked on us and provided supplies. He is on the mend just in time because Patrick and I will be heading to TX on our 20th anniversary trip this weekend.
I guess I felt the need to write about this because it truly takes a village and that everyone needs a little time to themselves. I know I have said many times, my neighborhood is AMAZING. But also I am so blessed to do life with my best friend. It can be hard juggling a sick child that can't walk and does school from home and add a very active brother. It's quite exhausting. I can't imagine doing it alone everyday. I believe it's times like this that I realize how lucky I am to have an amazing husband. I can only hope he realizes how taking time for yourself is the only way to fill your cup and be the best you can be. I also hope he knows that his presence was missed and that he knows how much he is appreciated and loved. Cheers to 20 years!
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